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Sunday Scraps 85

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1. SPORTS: This Charles Siebert piece for the New York Times Magazine about the rigors and stresses of trying to make an NFL team is fascinating. How much do you want it? And how much are you willing to take to get it?

2. BOOKS: Super great Atlantic essay about author Ann Patchett (Bel Canto, State of Play) and her new bookstore in Nashville. As a lover of independent bookstores, I think this is all kinds of awesome.

3. CHRIS BROWN: After violent exchange with a female comedian on Twitter, Chris Brown deleted his account. The always excellent Roxane Gay on why criticizing Brown isn’t racist, and why it also is pretty f’ing complicated.

4. ELECTION: Curious about how all those Obama for America emails with subject lines like “Hey” or “It’s officially over” played out? Businessweek has some answers.

5. PAIN: There’s an extremely rare medical condition where you feel no pain. Sounds great, right? Not unless you step on a nail, scratch yourself bloody, or break an ankle and don’t realize it. The New York Times has an examination.

6. MEDIA: The Geena Davis Institute on Gender in Media has put together an excellent report about the representation of women on screen (especially on children and family programming) and Mother Jones has a summary of some of the most telling facts and figures.

Related Post: Sunday 84 – Letters from astronauts, the female male model, bedrooms around the world.

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Get on it, America

The system isn’t perfect, but it’s what we’ve got and it’s better than what most people in the world have. Can you imagine if we lived in a place where one candidate won and the other dude was like, “Yeah, no…. I kind of dig this office. Go fuck yourself. Oh, and also, I’m going to take this bevy of ladies as my harem”?

In my polling place, the line was only a half hour, but folks were chatting and calm, feeling grateful to be a part of the process. When the line was too slow, voters skipped the privacy of the booths and started filling out their ballots up agains the garage door of the fire station or the red walls of the engine. Find a way.

A few weeks ago, an undecided friend of mine in Wisconsin sent me a plea for information. She was overwhelmed and confused and couldn’t find a way through the muck. She wanted some unbiased comparisons, so I sent her the most unbiased things I could find. I feel that democracy is ten times as powerful when you make a decision for yourself than when you follow lockstep with your pastor/parent/professor because you don’t have time/energy/desire to do the work yourself. For trying to do due diligence, I admire my friend.

Today, I sent her my unbiased opinion. It’s too important to let it slide and you never know what might tip someone as they’re standing there in the booth.

Today is the day. See you on the other side.

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Sunday Scraps 79

1. BINDERS: Amanda Hess for Slate makes a similar argument to mine earlier this week, and I’m into it. Binders full of women leads to cabinets full of women. Not an ideal process, not an ideal phrase, but not the wrong idea either.

2. OBAMA: Love this piece by Ta-Nahesi Coates for The Atlantic on the particular burden of carrying his “people.” Cool comparison with a 1936 boxing match in which Joe Lewis was knocked out by Max Shmeling.

3. HARPER: From Letters of Note, an excellent, excellent letter from the reclusive Harper Lee to Oprah Winfrey when O picked Mockingbird for the book club.

4. CLINTONS: How’d the Clinton/Obama relationship evolve from primary bashing to cooperation to Clinton’s epic convention speech? NYMag investigates.

5. SPAIN: What do you do if the country you call home can’t support your kids’ ambitions? Carlos Duarte writes for the Huffington Post about watching his daughter leave Spain in search of more than it can offer her.

6. MARKS: The joy of punctuation. Little-known, lesser-used punctuation marks that never quite hit the mainstream.

Related Post: Sunday 78: Inigo Montoya, Rebel Wilson, Roxane Gay, the truth of the VDay kiss.

Related Post: Sunday 77: Replacement refs, Urban Cusp, Jennifer Weiner

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Sunday Scraps 60

1. DIY: Thirteen creative solutions to one of my perennial problems: where do I put all my books? From Ecosalon.

2. FLIGHT: BBC has a badass gallery of photos of Ghana’s female pilots. What have YOU been learning in your spare time?

3. PRESIDENT: After a conservative pundit referred to Obama as a “metrosexual” President (as if that’s a bad thing…) Mother Jones put together a list of the 43 other metrosexual presidents.

4. GAME: Totally mesmerizing ten-minute short film by Jay Cheel about the politics within a group of friends as the addictive board game Settlers of Catan gets the better of them.

5. PIN-UP: The Rumpus interviews burlesque performer and red carpet regular Dita Von Teese.

6. THRONES: Game of Thrones author George R. R. Martin pokes fun at his most aggressively zealous fans on his LiveJournal. And yes, he has a LiveJournal.

Related Post: Sunday 59: Child psychopaths, Michelle Obama’s mistake, Kickstarter successes.

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Cover Art

Clearly, Newsweek was feeling a little cover envy after Time‘s intentionally and successfully controversial breastfeeding cover.

I wonder what was on the cover of Time around the rest of the world. They don’t have a great track record….

Related Post: Gender and magazine writing, Vida does it’s annual analysis.

Related Post: Stupid shit they try to sell me because I have boobs.

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Who’s Excited for Election Season?

Want to see something scary?

Chart by Ned Flaherty at MarriageEquality.org. Click to enlarge.

I’m overwhelmed by this chart. The pink sections seem to radiate animosity and bigotry, and the green seems to be cowering. I’m not a single issue voter, but I do believe that marriage equality is the defining civil rights issue of my generation. It’s an issue that affects over 30 million LGBTQ Americans and an issue that could very easily directly affect my children, or my nieces and nephews. Not to mention, of course, the fact that it’s an issue that already affects many good friends and family members.

Related Post: That Barack Obama “maybe” at the far left pisses me off. Zadie Smith, Dream City, and Obama.

Related Post: This is one of those friends who it marriage inequality will eventually affect!

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Gallery Day

An abandoned Boston Theater (Source: Buzzfeed)

It’s gallery day (read: lazy day). Four galleries of awesome images:

…. In case you’re wondering what Norman Mailer’s 2.5 million apartment looked like (Hint: Awesome).

…. In case you wanted to know what a week’s worth of food looks like from country to country, family to family. Photos by Peter Menzel. (Hint: It’s not the same).

…. In case you’ve been dying to peek inside 75 abandoned American theaters (Hint: haunting/beautiful)

…. In case you missed the amazing Situation Room photos from Sunday night, the White House has a flickr stream, who knew? (Hint: Probably a lot of people)


Related Post: One of my favorite essays about Obama, “Dream City.”

Related Post: Check out this guy’s gallery for insane lego art.

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“I Have Friends Who Are Black”

Glad to know that the “I have friends who are ______” is till considered a legitimate excuse -isms and -phobias. I would think that one would have been laughed off the front pages by now, but it seems that some “non”-racist, “non”-sexist, “non”-homophobes still think it carries water. Remember Sarah Palin claiming to have gay friends?

The latest user of the line is Marilyn Davenport, a committee member in Orange County who emailed the doctored Obama family photo at right to her buddies with the caption “Now we know why no birth certificate.”

The picture isn’t funny, the joke isn’t funny, but what is funny is Davenport’s response to the media hullabaloo: “I have friends who are black. Besides, I only sent it to a few people—mostly people I didn’t think would be upset by it.”

Ohhhh… didn’t you know? Racism doesn’t count when you only share it with other racists! Add that to the list of rules that also includes 1)  cheating isn’t cheating when you’re in another zip code and 2) calories stolen from your friend’s plate of fries don’t count against your waistline.

Davenport elaborated: “I simply found it amusing regarding the character of Obama and all the questions surrounding his origin of birth. In no way did I even consider the fact he’s half black when I sent out the email.”

Note to all politicians sending out “funny” emails: Would the joke still play if you swapped in a despised white liberal socialist pansy-ass? If not, you’ve probably crossed from just-plain-offensive into offensive-and-racist. Step back.

Related Post: More fun racial tension, Detroit-style.

Related Post: Do these people look like apes too?

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Dream City in the era of DADT and DOMA

"Dream City" by Paul Klee, 1921

In a 2008 speech to the New York Public Library, Zadie Smith spoke about Obama and a place called Dream City:

It is a place of many voices, where the unified singular self is an illusion. Naturally, Obama was born there. So was I. When your personal multiplicity is printed on your face, in an almost too obviously thematic manner, in your DNA, in your hair and in the neither-this-nor-that beige of your skin—well, anyone can see you come from Dream City. In Dream City, everything is doubled, everything is various.  You have no choice but to cross borders and speak in tongues.…It’s the kind of town where the wise man says “I” cautiously, because I feels like too straight and singular a phenome to represent the true multiplicity of his experience. Instead, citizens of Dream City prefer to use the collective pronoun we.

...He had the audacity to suggest that, even if you can’t see it stamped on their faces, most people come from Dream City, too. Most of us have complicated backstories, messy histories, multiple narratives. It was a high-wire strategy, for Obama, this invocation of our collective messiness. His enemies latched on to its imprecision, emphasizing the exotic, un-American nature of Dream City, this ill-defined place where you could be from Hawaii and Kenya, Kansas and Indonesia all at the same time.

The President’s understanding of complexity, his willingness to see from multiple sides, to hear input from various voices, these skills in a leader that make me sleep soundly at night. I’m rarely disappointed in the man.

When asked in this week’s press conference about his views on gay marriage, President Dream City responded: “I struggle with this. I have friends, I have people who work for me, who are in powerful, strong, long-lasting gay or lesbian unions. And they are extraordinary people, and this is something that means a lot to them and they care deeply about.”

Not enough, Mr. President, not enough at all. The strength of It Gets Better is in the potential for formerly impossible dreams to be realized: to serve your country, to be respected by your peers, to find love, to have a family, and for some, to get married. To support steps 1 through 4 and hedge your bets at marriage, Mr. President, is an incomplete articulation of Dream City.

Maybe there’s hope after all, from a man who’s Dream City citizenship is not written across his face, skin or hair. This week, Vice President Joe Biden said on Good Morning America: “I think the country is evolving, and I think there is an inevitability for a national consensus on gay marriage. That is my view — but this is the President’s policy. But it is evolving.”

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