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Sunday Scraps 48

1. OCCUPY: Guest post at Sociological Images by Celia Emmelhainz on the rhetoric of luck in the national conversation about the OWS movement. What and who do we consider “lucky,” and why? 2. ADELE: Love this Vogue interview with Adele … Continue reading

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Behind the Scenes at a Porn Studio

I bought a Groupon for a porn studio facilities tour. Let me back up…. Remember porn star James Deen? So when I was doing my “research” for that interview (I guess I don’t need quotes, I really was doing research), … Continue reading

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Why I’m MIA (blame it on Kink.com)

So I’ve been MIA for a few days touristing around San Francisco with some friends. We did many a wonderful thing, but get excited for a post in the next few days on the highlight of my trip: a tour … Continue reading

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The Unexpected Sexualization of Halloween

I know what you’re thinking. At this point there’s nothing unexpected about the sexualization of Halloween. Every year, parents pen the requisite outraged editorials about slutty nurse costumes for 8-year-olds and Jezebel publishes their favorite sexy costumes (this year’s winner? … Continue reading

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Guess Who I Interviewed? Hint, You’ve Seen Him Naked.

This week, on The Good Men Project, I had the distinct pleasure of interviewing porn star James Deen. I guarantee you this would be fun for anybody, but if you’ve been paying attention, you know I may be operating under … Continue reading

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Phoenix: Before and After

Earlier this week, I published an article summarizing my thoughts on porn (especially as it fits, or doesn’t, into relationships) for The Good Men Project. The comments went ballistic (many were longer than my essay), but at least no one … Continue reading

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Is Porn Cheating? Depends.

This week on the Good Men Project, I write about porn. Specifically, I was asked to address the question, “Is Porn Cheating?” I think not. But then again…. who cares what I think? After some minor soulsearching and irritating my … Continue reading

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From “Ooh La La” to Tears with Gaby Dunn

If you don’t read Gaby Dunn’s blog 100 Interviews, you should. The basic premise is simple and brilliant and I’m jealous I didn’t think of it myself. She made a list of 100 types people she wanted to meet, and … Continue reading

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Sunday Scraps 11

1. SPORTS: In the wake of a whole bunch of sports-related gay friendliness, Charles Barkley added his two cents, “I’d rather have a gay guy who can play than a straight guy who can’t play.” 2. PUBES: Pornstar Ashley Blue … Continue reading

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Sunday Scraps

1. BODY IMAGE: Addicted to textsfromlastnight? Spend a lot of time thinking about body image/health/beauty etc? Meet your dream site. 2. FASHION: I want this coat. I’m not cool enough to wear it, but whatever. From NYMag‘s slideshow of the … Continue reading

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